Sound like a bad dad. Who whould want their child dead? If you want support, then you have to let him see his child however, I would not take the support. I would not want the dad around when he wants the child dead. You may have to go to court and proof him an unfit dad.He cantake him. It has to be a court thing.I want advise on my ex. Im 20 and 5months pregnant my ex left me when i found out and we haven't spoke since.?
You must see a solicitor as soon as possible and ask about an order for the boy to pay maintenance. If you can't afford to pay a solicitor, they will help you to apply for legal aid. The longer you leave it, the easier it will be for the other side to say that you have managed so far, so you don't need so much help. Don't be put off doing this, because you are obviously better off without this person. Even if you think he can't afford to pay anything, get the order made anyway.
He can not pay because he does not want to see the baby. If you contact CSA then they will force him to pay a set amount from his wages. They take it from him via his employer and pay it directly to you. Do not worry they will make him pay you and if you do not want him to see the baby and he doesnt then thats fine, If he does change his mind you may need to take the legal route if he sends you anything in writing saying he wishes your son would die keep it just in case. If you pop on this webpage no link sorry then give them a call they will explain it all to you.
http://www.csa.gov.uk/
okay coming from someone who has been there. my boyfriend has a child his mother will not let him see the child because she doesnt like me. and thats pretty much it. she is a selfish ***** who wants to make everyone and everything miserable. then she goes and tells all of my friends its because i wont let him see his son. when i push him to fight for his son. so maybe he is lieing or you dont have the whole story straight its better to get everyones point of view than hearing what people want you to hear.
He will only pay maintnence? What are you having, a volvo? He sounds like a real prize, maybe risking losing some CHILD SUPPORT is actually worth it if it keeps that turd away.
i didn't real get wat u Just sed..... but if ur bf dnt want anything 2 wit u n ur child... i wud jus leave him his nt worth da time n no he cant take a child frm da mother.. good luck n jus concrete on u n ur baby ... he will *** around soon
this guys a creep if possible move, you dont want anyone like that near yor kid,just let your parents know.
Fathers rarely get custody of the child, but he might get partial custody or visitation rights.
Definitely get a DNA test when your son is born and get him for child support. It's his child too and he needs to help support him.
also if he ever sends you any nasty texts, emails, voice mails, etc save them!!!! It will help you in court to show he is unfit.
If you guys were married, then he can take you to court. If the baby has his last name he can also take you to court. If his gf is 16 and he wished the baby would die, his an idiot, and just to make you feel bad, he could also take you to court. The judge, could give you the legal thingy but could also allow him to see the baby, in that case ask for money. It'd not be a lot, but it could be, depends on how much money the dad has (they gave $600 monthly for my bro). I don't really know if he can do anything if you guys weren't married.
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