Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Do you follow your own advise?

I find it funny how eager people are to give out advise to others, especially on the love and relationships matter. However, I also find that when it comes to their own lives, they very often act exactly opposite of what they advice others!


Why are we so quick to see other people's problems, but never think that our own lives are just as messed up?!


In all honesty, I so often find myself giving out advise to people, and I am sure that the desicion I advise them to make is the most appropriate in their situation. Then as soon as someting similar happens to me, I hardly ever follow my own advise and come up with all sorts of excuses to justify my actions.


Is like that for you to? Do you follow your own advice?Do you follow your own advise?
Heh! Excellent question!


I am guilty of NOT following my own advice. It seems so simple to look at other peoples problems and come up with sound, logical solutions but when it comes to my own problems, for me there often seems to be no easy solutions :| It is kinda funny how that happens.Do you follow your own advise?
Tabbie K nailed it. When my mind confuses me, then I seek help. Except sometimes it's hard to find... don't necessarily follow your own advice, but, as corny as it sounds try to follow your instincts, don't think too much either!. As the mind can be a very scary place! believe me Ive been there, on a number of occasions.. plus people don't really care about other people, no that's wrong, more meaning that if you look deeper into someones soul you will find that people often give advice to make themselves feel better, or show that they 'just can' give out advice.
I try to, but we're all human and sometimes fall short, or don't practice what we preach.





One of the reasons we sometimes don't follow our advice is because even though we ';know'; the right thing to do, it might be easier, or more pleasurable to do something else.
well sometimes I do but if my own mind confuses me then thats when I ask for help.
I don't give other people advice. Why waste my breath? They aren't going to profit by my wise words.





When people want something badly, even when they know it's not what they need, they are not going to listen to anything you have to say.





It's the same with yourself. You know that man is a rotter, but he is soooo fine. It strokes your ego to be able to say to others that he is ';yours.'; Even though he doesn't show up when he says he will. Even though your neighbor saw him out with another woman you find excuses for him. Even though he spent his money on a new pair of kicks when he told you he was taking you to the concert. He is so hot.





No, he's not. He's a bum and you can do better than that. But are you going to listen to yourself? Nope.
No, not always, it is easy to tell people what they should do, it is often hard to follow your own advice.

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