This is the truth.The girl is 13 and she wants a baby? What's advise wud u give to her? : : : :ramadan.?
im 32.. female.. and to be honest.. all young girls go through a stage in their lives where they think.. ';think'; they want to have babies.. I dont know why..
its not the sexual encounter, or marriage they are after, its also not the whole 9 months gestation or birthing the baby.. they just want a baby to magically plop down into their laps..
they are too immature emotionally to even begin to handle motherhood and all this entails.. but yes.. all girls do go through this.. I dont know if its the changing hormones during this age.. (from 12-18, upon puberty) or what..
Just try to talk to the girl and give her a reality check.. Let her watch Jon %26amp; Kate plus 8 for just one episode and she'll change her mind..
Babies are the end of your innocence and childhood as a girl, once you become a mother.. You no longer sleep, rest and depression can hit fast.. its a major responsibility to handle a tiny living being.. You are the soul provider for this tiny baby.. you have to feed it, clean, it love it, nurture it.. 24/7.. YOU dont get time off.. your life as you knew it is over, ';over';.. seriously..
any girl these days shouldnt think about it till at least 22/23 years and above..The girl is 13 and she wants a baby? What's advise wud u give to her? : : : :ramadan.?
Well, first I'd want to know why, and the advice would differ depending on the reason.
Well if she thinks it's cool to have a baby, show her it isn't.
Let her babysit [with a supervisor] a baby for a few hours, she should realise the complications of it all, the nappy changing, the constant smell of vomit, the crying. Hopefully it'll open her eyes a bit to what having a baby of her own is like.
Oh, well, you know what her problem is, you gave it in another answer. She is deprived of sex, that is what she really wants. She does not want a baby or the unconditional love they represent, she only wants sex.
I thought I woudl try to give an answer from your own mentality so you might understand it. Of course, an answer for someone who doesn't think with a filthy mind that a man is only interested in sex and can have no love for his wife, would be that she is a natural female who intuitively wants a child. Wow, that makes her, ummm, perfectly normal.
Encourage her to wait a few years, but there is nothing wrong for her to marry at 16 or 17 and start her family unless of course people want to throw in a bunch of unimportant and wrong priority things like the husband has to ';have a good job'; and ';be from a good family'; and ridiculous garbage like that. I assume her body is ready at her age, but a few more years of maturity will help the situation, but no need to wait until she is in her 20s and has a college degree and career (which won't leave her times to raise her kids) or has to have a perfect husband (perfect by her parents eyes, not hers). That's not what she wants our of life, she wants to be a mom first, good for her. Hopefully others will not discourage this too much.
Take her to the nearest hospital or birth center and let her see how babies are born. I am sure you could find someone that would let her watch. After seeing that if she still wants a baby let her know what it cost to raise 1 child per day for the next 18 years plus college. Tell her when she can do that... she can have one. In the mean time get her a pet and make her completely responsible for everything for it, from buying food to cleaning up behind it and bathing it. If she still wants a baby after all that LOCK her in her room and put bars on the window.
well i guess tell her that she has to wait until she's married. tell her when having a baby at that age she no longer would have a childhood cause she now to think about her babies childhood and future. tell her babies are for real. if she still wants a baby, go out and buy her ';baby alive';.
I presume this is the same girl u saw making out with a 15 yr old.in the family car. Didn't u have a talk with her sis and parents?She must be pregnant now.
Tell her that she will no longer be free of worries. Depression will set in at this early age and it is very very painful 2 give birth and breast feeding is even worse pain. She will have 2 clean poop of the baby 10 times a day. Clean puke 20 times a day. The baby will cry her brains out.
SCARE HER. But whatever I said is true.
There isn't much advice you can give her. If she wants one badly enough she'll get pregnant. Sad. Her parents need to take control of this situation.
You're only 20? I would have thought you to be older, like 30.
tell her that if she has one its going to be like shitting an human being out her pussy which is going to hert like a *****........then u get pissed on because shes going to be such a shitty mom that she didnt potty train the child......or say she can have sex as long as she wears a condom
Finish school first, go to University, find a man then get married, then have a baby. Why would u want to have a baby at 13? People suppose to have fun during teenagers.
Tell her that this is not your age. Getting a baby is a process and when you will marry in the perfect age then you can have. You are very young and young people dont get baby.
A baby is not a toy
that baby needs love and care
You can just about look after yourself
what about when you want to go out
who is gonna look after your child?
and some other crap
Grow up!
There are toys..
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she can do what she wants it is her choice no-one can stop her she just needs to think about the consequences
Tell her it is against the law to have a baby at that tender age.
First thing i would ask her is who is going to support her and the baby?
wait more 10 years.
what you mean by ramadan?????
do want a tight slap!!!! you noe what i mean ill show her.
whose bp?
Get her a puppy.
I'd tell her go right ahead if you're trying to ruin your life.
Volunteer in a day care program 24/7, and NEVER take a day off.
I'll try to arrange her Nikah
wow...:O just wtf..ohhh emm geeee
She can have one......in about 10 years
tell her to get married
its just sick
I'd tell her parents....they need to know this child needs help.
I wanted to look after babies when I was about 9. I've always liked babies but I never thought I want to have a baby now.
Maybe if she babysat a few babies she would understand that it's not easy and that she isn't ready for it.
You could get her one of those dolls that are like babies. I don't know what they're called but I seen it on a tv programme once where a teen wanted to have a baby so they gave her one of those dolls that are exactly like babies. It just cries in the middle of the night, wants a feed and I think you have to change it's nappy too.
In the end the girl was so mad because she couldn't handle it and she threw the doll against the wall.
